@spitzwegerich that happens to all parents. I will have a dialogue with them. I wont let other parents raise my kids.
@Sprattelknaster stories yes. Cartoons no. I read books and tell them stories. Good enough.
@NathanTDean you accused me of saying things i didnt. Responding to that is not the same as arguing.
@ManicalMart i give my kids way more choice than most parents.
@NathanTDean eh no i didnt.
@etellurian why will i have to tell them anything? I doubt theyll ask.
@itsmotherswork look for translate clients!
@MasterZap i feel more comfortable in swedish. Its more “me”. I use a certain language that get lost in translation.
You guys can find me at @ladydahmer , appparently many twitter clients do translate! Hope to see you there, youve all been fab!
@cassythompson and thats simply not true. Kids get affected by everything. You as a parent are only ONE agaist the norms of society.
@sunrayswench so read them to your kids.
@NathanTDean who am i mean to?!
You know. Only five minutes left. Then I’m off.
@sunrayswench i disagree. Its just words. And i believe they serve a purpose.
@cassythompson no it doesnt. But its not a concidence that women have the issues we do.
@popzugar because i feel more comfortable in swedish. Its more me.
@sunrayswench yes i do.
@sunrayswench and what would hit them?
@sunrayswench i do. But you seem to think im doing wrong by forbidding certain tv.
Its not like kids have a biological need to watch cartoon.
Its not like i will forbidd them forever, but all in good time. Small kids should not be exposed to shit that can harm them.
Im a big fan of forbidding kids to do certain things. I wont provide porn, drugs, alcohol, smokes, sex or other things to them either.
@sunrayswench i wont let them watch porn, horror. I wont let them smoke or drink booze.
Apparantly theres a translator for tweets! “@clairelouise2: @sweden tweetlist pro, it’s not free but it is excellent.”
@sunrayswench so in other words, i should start showing porn to my four year old?
@clairelouise2 which client is that?!
and i havent banned anything. Not providing is not the same as forbidding. I dont provide porn or horror either. @sunrayswench
@sunrayswench should i also show them porn and violence? I mean banning is wrong right?
i rather not watch it at all. Just line i wont watch texas chainsaw massacre with them. ;-) @tobiascroby
@sunrayswench you think we live in the woods alone? And i socialise my kids. Just without gender restrictions and tight norms.
@Rav_Bunneh there are a zillion other stories to tell besides destructive love.
it has nothing to do with intelligence and all to do with socialisation. Subtle and subcontious. @sunrayswench
@svknco i have a very hard time seeing what that would possibly be. No.
astrid lindgrens old movies. Pippi, emil. Etc. @ivaluconnects
@nuvida19 it doesnt matter what they study later, they will still be very much affected by what they see as kids
Those of you who wonder: i twitter in swedish as @ladydahmer I wont start an english account, dont have the time! But its tempting!
@MolleCobain shrek is great!
“He stalks her, reminds her over and over again that he could “lose control” and kill her…:|” and this is what teenage girls watch.
everything in good time. I dont think you should expose small kids to everything. Im a big fan of censoring them. @tobiascroby
@Britt_W i think so too!
@isaiahheaden and as a father of daughters? As a brother? As a son?
Not saying that disney is the sole reason for gender stereotypes etc. But disney is ONE small part of something bigger. Its a pussle.
And dont give me the “most people have watched that and turned out ok!”. No they didnt. Look around.
@eatcakebehappy not yet but ive heard lot of great things about them!
@Boogalord no they didnt. Look around.
All of you who are curious of my disney-loathing and want to understand more about my stance, youtube “mickey mouse monopoly”.
@elmanu23 no they didnt but the message is subtle and affects them. Tip watch mickey mouse monopoly!
@rarsson and wooden shoes!
yes! Dont get me started on twilight! @fel_pronomen
@Britt_W through constant dialogue. Im preparing them NOW by encouraging critical thinking.
@MattiasAtterbom ive done that. I also have several transexual aquaitances.
@BobbyRiversTV long time ago i saw it. But i think its actually one of the better ones!
@MattiasAtterbom all parents buy their kids clothing. I make sure they have practical clothing in every colour of the rainbow.
And Ariel?Giving up her voice and preparing for pain and death to be with a man shes met ONCE?!!And he falls in love with her for her looks
No I wont let my kids watch beauty n the beast. It glorifies domestic abuse, kidnapping and the crazy notion that “my love will change him!”
Dont get me started on beauty and the beast. Dear heaven. You guys ever heard of the stockholm syndrome?
Also, in Disney the focus is always on looks and female self-sacrifice. = giving up everything for the man.
I prefer movies and books about children friendship.
I loath Disney and traditional fairy tales. The consant theme is adult love and princsses waiting to be rescued by the prince.
Putting the kids to sleep. We’re watching Pippi. Im restrictive with TV. Most children show are very stereotype too. Or hetero normative.
@MattiasAtterbom no it doesnt.
You can also google “swedish food”, “swedish traditions” etc. #goodtoknow
Those of you who think i shouldve shown more pics of my country: google stockholm. For pics of the countryside, try “delsbo”!
@danny16moore and you can tell that by… A week worth of twittering? Well done!
@danny16moore one thing doesnt eclude the other.
@garriguscarraig most women in sweden shave.
@Der_Mehdi why not? What special about this pcture?
@MaxWyattSampson no but i couldnt find another one
@edmoats why should i feel shame
@nams_s aw no. :-(
@savoryexposure so have i! Its been great fun.
@PeterHasselbom i was just challenging peoples thoughts.
@_fabandy if i was, they would still not get any reactions.
So is this picture worthy of any “its not a big deal!” -comments? http://t.co/AELPmJNc
My husbands beard. Now that is not a big deal. Therefor few people feel the need to comment on it when i post a pic of it.
Is also interesting when people say “of course people will react if you post a pic!” at the same time they say “its not a big deal!”.
Its interesting that no one tells me im “just looking for a reaction” when i post pics of my husband or friends.
@NathanTDean vagina? Whats wrong with writing vagina?
@MarcusNordberg i ett demokratiskt land ska titlar inte kunna ärvas.
@SirJolt the hair.
@igorsky i want to be able to post it without any reaction. Like when i post pics of my cat or husband.
@NathanTDean you should understand that ive been told to tweet AS USUAL.
@cassythompson not true at all. And if it wasnt a big deal i wouldnt get a big reaction at all. Posted lots of other pics. No one cared.
@cassythompson the thing is that people DO care regardless of my opinion.
@ZoranPavlovicLj i dont know about MORE, just as much!
was there a problem about that picture? @PANOABURRIRME
@ChloeclawNorman ignoring bullies doesnt actually work. Ignoring problema have never worked.
So dont tell me its not a big deal. Because apparently its a big deal.
If it wasnt a big deal, julia roberts unshaven pit and moniques unshaven legs wouldnt be in the tabloids and head news.
If it wasnt a big deal, women wouldn excuse themselves or feel shame when they forget to shave.
If it wasnt a big deal, i would be told by strangers that i need to shave. I would be told i look like a man or that im nasty or unfeminine.
This (pic) IS a big deal because if it wasnt no one would react or comment on it. http://t.co/LzinpvCD
How free are we to chose when the wrong choice results in a bad respons? @cassythompson
its easy to say “dont care what others say!” it another tving to actually do it. Maybe i am weak. @cassythompson
speciall if this happen when youre a child. Norms sets early. @cassythompson
if people look at and respond to you as if youre nasty when you make the “wrong” choice, it wont take long before you conform @cassythompson
have you tried being unshaven? Try it! No human is an island. We get affeced by the way we get responded to. @cassythompson
@Mike_Quist seen yes. Met no.
@ChloeclawNorman it is a big deal that i cant be unshaven without being punished. Try it for a month.
@ChloeclawNorman first, my child wears pink. Secondly, its really not that simple. With gender comes expectations.
@gogolecat its really not that simple. Swedish women are free all nights a week. Alcohol makes everyone a little more bold though.
@ChloeclawNorman and it IS a big deal.
@ChloeclawNorman people will always protest at the thought of change. But the more you talk about it the more it sinks in.
@gogolecat what? Why do you think only fridays?
@gogolecat dont know really.
@ChloeclawNorman most dirferences bwteen genders are structured. Not biological. And being different is no reason to be raised differently
@ChloeclawNorman force is not nessesarily gun point. Pressure and the way people respond to you are forceful tools
@ChloeclawNorman force is not nessesarily gun point. Pressure and the way people respond to you are forceful tools.
@gogolecat well yes, we’re not that open.
@gogolecat thats not it either.Swedish women dont generaly need sex to have sex for the 1 time either.But drunk people tend to be hornier
I dye my hair, paint my nails and wear dresses. Occasionally i will was vagina or put on lipstick. But i dont have to. @ChloeclawNorman
also, theres nothing wrong with shaving or makeup. Its when you HAVE TO do them its wrong. @ChloeclawNorman
no. Because i wont be called nasty, unfeminine or manly if i dont have painted nails. @ChloeclawNorman
@gogolecat not really no. But i wouldnt say that most swedish women need alcohol to have sex. Thats not true.
@FriederikeHell unfortunatelly a shitload of them there.
@FriederikeHell my inlaws. Husbands parents.
I always have painted nails. @ChloeclawNorman
@gogolecat im not sure what you meant? Swedes need alvohol to relax and have fun. That is sad.
No. I mean the outlaws. ;-)
The houses, called “hälsingegård” is basically right in the woods. http://t.co/x9Wx0nsi
Looking out our front door in spring time. http://t.co/TrnXwNxj
Last year they renovated one of them for us. We have decorated and built everything in a VERY swedish style. http://t.co/NAi27EfO
The outlaws have three old houses.Built in the start of 1800 sometimes. (which isnt THAT old compared to other houses) http://t.co/prjKqKfY
Next weekend we travel 300 kilometres up north. Visit the outlaws in the countryside and have a two week vacation. http://t.co/2GNjH4Az
@JohanssonSten and you have zero clue what feminism is about.
@JohanssonSten not as long as they want to have sex with you. But fact is that sexually active women get labeled loose, bad or sluts. Facts.
@celineboyeaux its in the combination.
Todays gender neutral brats. Sunday is a soft day. Park now. Sofa later. http://t.co/g8ib4bgE
Parenting in the year 2012 http://t.co/79nPQu6f
@noatwo it has nothing to do with racism. Most dot say it out loud either.
Its was a hard sleep over night. Good morning! http://t.co/wMdDPjcO
@TheReLe78 asså jag läser tweeten men inte alltid ev länk.
@johannakjellman inte öppen nej. Men ofta när man tittar lite djupare så kommer det fram.
@noatwo this is a common problem even if you havent seen it.
@valeskocracy i wasnt comparing the two. Also i was reffering to prejudiced views. Not my own. For many gay is “less of a man”.
@valeskocracy never said it was
@smamat heard of condoms? And why would have sex with married people?
swedish men are the best! @JagHeterMoi
@loyise ive felt that a lot too.
@Henkesz jo d är väldigt syrliga och inte så där jättegoda egentligen. Men tillsammans med grytorna blir det gott!
If you havent tried erithrean or ethiopian food yet, you must. http://t.co/DcixAhR5
@loyise what do you feel like?
@simonspeichert they are!
Haha no not true at all. @JohanssonSten
Im generalizing of course. You must do that in order to see structures and patterns. Always exceptions. @PatrickpunktF
no no, when a foreigber wins something for us theyre a “real svensk”. @CapitalSquirrel
@dileno nah. Im proud of my country. Swedes are great!
@chrismada9 omg yes i know them. Theyre awful!!lol. Used to eat them as a kid.
I am swede though. This is my home. My country.
I was born here by a swedish mother. My father is greek however and in sweden that means you will always be concidered “not one of us”. Sad.
Oh no she didnt! My dinner guest just pulled the “but youre not really swedish” on me. She joked but it is actually a common thing.
And since its saturdag, its “lördagsgodis”. Swedish candy is really high quality. Probably the best in the world. http://t.co/lhyqSDpS
And the food: http://t.co/ETOigD3i
Let the apocalypt begin! Its injera night! (erithrean food). Swedes like foreign food a lot. This is my favourite. http://t.co/Q9ZPgWjr
@dbergkvist if you were born with a penis youre shit ot of luck, but dont let that define you! You can be who you want.
i had sushi for lunch. And will have erithrean injera and durho for dinner! Swedes love foreign food! @svknco
@micflan i didnt equate them.
@TobyFoster ive tweeted a lot about zombies, breastfeeding, child rearing, swedish traditions and much more. One subject?
@The__Paul love ut!
@TobyFoster this doesnt provoce me. Its just dumb.
And lets stop talking about “real” men and women. All men are real and all women are real. Regardless of looks or behaviour.
There is a belief that real men always wants sex and with anyone. This is wrong and creates huge pressure on young boys as well as grown.
Also, men who dont wanna have sex with everyone or all the time are not gays or unmanly. Stop putting stigma and shame on peoples sexuality.
@cornfedblonde absolutelly! It means freedome to fuck around or to stay celibate. Without judgement.
it probably did! @fluteswedie
Tiny iphone and fat fingers is not a good combination. Excuse all the the typos!
Embrace your inner slut and fuck away! Men and women!Life is too short to deprive yourself from joy and pleasure.(only if you want that is.)
@gersty well both becaude it has to do with their view on women.
Swedish women have a slut reputation in other countries. This is because swedish women arent afraid to enjoy themselves without shame.
Makes me both pissed off and sad because it confines women. Shame is a powerful tool when subduing and repressig women. #slutshame
Insulting a woman is unbecoming of a gentleman. (if we’re gonna play that old fashioned game)
Those are the true faces of women haters. They will claim they “love” us though but in reality, only if we fulfil a certain standard.
Fuck the madonna and whore complex! Grow up all of you who think you have the right to disrespect women based on how much sex we have!
and im not a lady. Im a normal modern woman who doesnt appologize for myself. @edmoats
@edmoats so you decided to disrespect me because you dont agree with my sexual ways?
@chowow oh yes!
@edmoats what was the point of your post? Are you trying to hurt me?
@Henkesz om man följer gamla grammatikregler: henom o henoms. Om man följer nya: Hens. (rekommenderat)
White white white. Not us though. Our bedroom has black walls. Home filled with dark woods and colours.
Most swedes decorate their homes with light colours. White or light beige walls. Light wood like pine or oak.
I mentioned before that we all cosleep. We have two beds pushed together to fit everyone. http://t.co/vFsveg2v
Here, not taking of your shoes is very rude. @Darls10
@sparkymonster i dont care for donuts but the store didnt have anything else
@breederfeeder sometimes. Mostly no.
@Jill_Fink ive told people in my surroundings how i think. Before b-days and xmas i send out wish lists.
In sweden all kids grow up with “lördagsgodis”. Which means saturday candy. No candy other days. Ninja bought her own today.
@DoyonMalin no no, specfic person! :-)
@NathanTDean beig aware of how toys or other stuff affect your kid isnt the same as being threatened.
@NathanTDean then youre misreading me.
@DoyonMalin eh. I think i have a pretty good clue what tender people have when talking to them. Can never be sure though, but this is a man.
@NathanTDean maybe youre misreading me. What is it you dont get? Ask and ill explain.
@sippan exactly what im saying.
@DoyonMalin no. I know it is a man.
“@michiexile: Really weird are the cultures where people wear shoes indoors AND have wall-to-wall carpets everywhere.” uhhh filthy! Yuk!
She is still creative, but she will play more accordingly to the toys purpose.
thing with lego and MY child is that when she has access to people and premade lego moduls,she plays different than if she only has blocks
Slippers! Not all nordic homes are warm either. @upsfeup
@NathanTDean i didnt say lego wasnt creative. Lego is great! Im talkng about the moduls. Like ninjago and star wars lego etc.
@evaernfors jag tro ändå att ju mer tydligt användningsområde desto mindre variation. Undersökningar har visat detta.
@evaernfors jag tro ändå att ju mer tydligt användningsområde desto mindre variation. Undersökningar har visat detta.
@NathanTDean i mean spoiled with toys that tells them how to play and what to play.
@NathanTDean i mean spoiled with toys that tells them how to play and what to play.
I dont understand why you wear your shoes indoors?! Dont you get warm and sweaty feet? Bring in shit on your floors. Etc.
I dont understand why you wear your shoes indoors?! Dont you get warm and sweaty feet? Bring in shit on your floors. Etc.
“@carolynUK: Most Swedes won’t let shoes into their house…”” this is true. We take off our shoes when we enter our home.
“@carolynUK: Most Swedes won’t let shoes into their house…”” this is true. We take off our shoes when we enter our home.
@NathanTDean no it means that i work in Preschools and see kids getting more and more spoiled.
@NathanTDean no it means that i work in Preschools and see kids getting more and more spoiled.
@ThegoodBuck no! Only swedish!
@aroland not chewing tobacco. Its snus. Snuff. We out it unde our lip. Some people smoke yes.
So she doesnt have any lego people. Not a problem. Shes a problem solver de luxe. http://t.co/ZcOogiiX
All these premade models kills creativity. Even the modules are simplyfied and only have one use and one kind of possibility. #lego
I have deliberately just bought lego blocks, not figures or other models. (cars, trees, animals) Just blocks. I want her to BUILD.
This is a horse. http://t.co/cXFXXs19
Nerd alert! We have guests. One is husbands working buddy. http://t.co/WQz64oq4
@plastisock1 det finns ungefär 15000 hemlösa i sverige. Varav 500 av dessa är uteliggare och 2000 bor på härbergen.
Nazi logic: woman says immigrant rapists shouldnt be deported. Nazi gets angry cuz rape is serious crime. Also says he hope she gets raped.
@MasterZap which is why i often ask what people meant in case of misintepretation.
@MasterZap i probably have yes
@MasterZap i probably do at times!
@Jessicapct Engelska är mitt andra språk. Ber om ursäkt för att den ej är perfekt.
@borntorun07 and yeah. That was rude.
@borntorun07 > instead of going all passive aggressi matryr on me.
@borntorun07 maybe youre just not good at expressing yourself. Which easily couldve been understud if you just explained nicely instead >
@Lokar possible, but we also have like the smallest population! Lol
Haha yeah i sound like a crazy immigrant through google! “@PenTroll: and for those that don’t there is always Google Translate :D”
For those of you who knows swedish, you can find my blog at http://t.co/Wc3fekmm
@EllieSilwer no. Thats bullshit.
Ive been awake since five thirty and is now trying to catch up on my blog which i have been ignoring this week. http://t.co/9DlCZbPn
Good morning y’all! Typical sweden weather today. Nice-ish but grey clouds covering the sky.
@Knipplebo haha certainly not.
@FinalDraftCopy they try to come of as not racist. A lot of people voted because of their integration politics.
@Tikkunolam5772 i have never heard this. Maybe “jude” is slang for something else? We have those words.
Oh great. Tinnitus.
And cranky even.
When my kid gets up in oh about four hours, ill be very cranku.
Sorry! Yes! “@LillemorSR: @sweden In the parliament, not the governement”
@paz_se in the riksdagen. Hell i dont know what thats called in english!
@FinalDraftCopy a few racists and a bunch of stupid bafoons.
@yX__ god yes. Greece is a banana republic. I still love it there though! My family is from pireaus.
We do however and unfortunatelly have a rasist party in our government. Dont ask me how the fuck that happened.
We have our share of racists and neo nazi pigs. But sweden is not anti-semitic or islamophobic as a general rule.
This is not true. “@Tikkunolam5772:I hear that Sweden is one of the worst Jew hating countries in the world.”
@Tikkunolam5772 what? Thats not true. Believe me.
@Tikkunolam5772 we do have racism But its mainly pointed towards muslims.
@Tikkunolam5772 it isnt. We have our share of nazi oigs just like every other one but not antisemitic in the least.
@the_turtle im not allowed to discuss the project but yes i had to write in english.
@MadisonSWE jag antar ingenting. Jag pratar om en problematik som är reell.
@AlisonJette no. Just the milk. Dont know why we eat it like that! Tradition!
@petermedvind jag generaliserar givetvis. Vet att det finns nyanser. Osv.
@MadisonSWE det också. Men det går inte att hjälpa missbrukare om de inte vill själva. Osv.
no. In sweden you dont end up on the street because youre broke or unemployed. We have a good safety net. @etellurian
Semla. Swedish pastry-bread-thingy with cream and eh… Marsipan like almondy mush in it. Eat in a bowl of warm milk. http://t.co/egYIQVNQ
And now a break with something completely different for those of you who are to lazy to google swedish foods and such… (cont)
@FarewellTravels i totally misread your question. Lol. But i did answer it.
@FarewellTravels not strangers. But most have friends, family, rent second hand. Etc.
And those that do end up on the streets are usually broken people. Addicts. Alcoholics. Mentally ill. Theyre hard to help.
Most homeless people in sweden just dont have homes. (that theyre registered to) they live elsewhere. Few end up on the streets. Thank god.
We have a couple of thousands of our own homeless but otherwise we’re pretty saved from this.
People who have a choice dont beg. They dont sit in the freezing cold watchin people walk by them as if they werent there.
Some might argue that theyre only here to make easy money or hired by some obscure european maffia. But even they have to eat sometimes.
Ten years ago this was only seen on TV. Now we see it more and more. Its sad. I try to give when i see. http://t.co/3uAJFiP4
if you think we are freaks i have to ask where you come from! @badassday
just like to point out that the hate is miniscule compared to the love and support. Sometimes we focus too much on the negative @ronindotca
Btw. Just a random swedish public toilet I did my business in today. After lunch. Tamlin did business too. http://t.co/5ychtlLU
Damn you Ben and Jerry! I wish I was eating you right now! http://t.co/nHT1zU0U
@101RUEDA its hard to tell you how much without context. Its expensive though. I used six.
@101RUEDA i made it myself from avocados.
Every mexican in the world just felt a chill. #swedish_taco
So what did i put in my burrito you wonder?! Sause made of soy, tomatoes, spices. (cinnamon, cummin, chili, paprika), vegetables. (cont.)
@akniia de ödslar verkligen ingen tid de jävlarna!!
@Komalantz most people love it. Its high quality. Spcially our chocolate
@meshort88 what the heck do you put in it??? I also shoved guacamole in it! Lol
Wooo too much chilli pickles on burrito. But damn ut was good.
@carolynUK i agree
you mean you DONT get angry when putting IKEA furnitures together?! Youre a saint! @rmgbi
@borntorun07 stop being a martyr and just speak up.
this is true. Ikea angers people. “@TweetweekUSA not sure if u watch 30 Rock, but they did an IKEA episode. It turns couples into enemies.”
@smamat hon kallas inte Ninja. Hon HETER Ninja
@Johnssonskan yup! Ask for durho withiut chicken. (it has egg too) or other veggie dishes
Maybe i need to clean up too. Nah. No? http://t.co/l7KoUQZt
Seriously. (yes still here) have you guys ever had erithrean food? If you havent you havent lived. Its. The. Best. Ever.
Dont worry though. Wont abandon you. I will just have to show you my multitasking skills.
Why am i still here tweeting?!!! ITS TACO FRIDAY and ive been neglecting the brats for way too long. http://t.co/ySAhda29
@bigbearjt this is true. Just that online, people become even more ugly hiding behind screens.
I think its important that we have a dialogue about the way we respond to eachother online. A lot of ugly comes out in people behind screens
Some people seem to think that “freedom of speech” entitles you to say whatever you want to whoever you want.
@Eyerly_ neither did i. So i tried it. Kinda failed cuz i met hubby almost instantly.
@Qloudnineband to each their own!
God no! I’m a hard core lefty and a socialist! @CTerry1985
I tried the slut thing once. Loved it. Juggled three men. One of them i married. End of sluttyness. Wish i had started sooner. It was great!
Nope. Most women shave and swedes are well known for their slutty women. And i say slutty like its a GOOD thing! @edmoats
yes. My kids name really is Ninja. Ninja Sol Greta. @danserud
@ahoffma21 great to hear! *pew!*
unfortunatelly our fear of interferring or imposing takes the best of us. They probably WANTED to help but didnt dare @bircea
@stpe yes i did! I also smelled and looked awful. Hahaha.
yes we love meatballs eaten with potatoes, brown sause and lingonberries. @busterup25
we all hate IKEA but still buy an overload of shit when we visit. @busterup25
No! Few are truly blond. @malincunningham
yes! Swedes are very helpful. @anacletadunham
True. We still drink like vikings on a binge in this country. @gavinpurcell
sure we can! We just like to drink a LOT! Swedes need to be drunk to relax. @anacletadunham
Ninja by the grave field. http://t.co/Wadeihfp
Theres an old viking grave field outside our house. I sweden we have a lot of that scattered here and there. http://t.co/LL9WJNgR
Come on, hit me with your best prejudies on swedes!
I dont know. I think there are some things that qualifies a true swede! Like we’re kinda distant. Soft spoken. (im greek btw) polite. Etc.
@TantKakelugn mobbing handlar om en grupp människor som tllsammans hackar på en enskild individ. Fråga dig själv hur du bidrar.
@esperaiDK i dont feel bullied, but that doesnt make you less of a bully. Its ok not to like someone. Its when you must tell them its wrong.
You know that shitty parent that picks up her kid too late from preschool? Yup. Still me.
@TantKakelugn for the record dock så känner jag mig inte ett dugg mobbad. Men vissa har mobbarnentalitet o det accepteras inte
@TantKakelugn en del gillar inte mig. Mobbare bukar inte gilla sina offer. Menar du att det är ok att mobba?
@esperaiDK im not upset with your opinion. I just wonder why you have the need to put me down?
@MasterZap and reason for your tweet is? You get off by putting others down?
Nah. Im awesome. Must ask what the point of your tweet was? Other than to be mean that is. @esperaiDK
@Eruannster i know! Blomberg brothers FTW!
@esperaiDK btw what was the point of that tweet?
I AM crude and uneducated. @esperaiDK
OH MY GOD! You know what day it is?!!!! http://t.co/iZeKxM0E
@madeleine_swe not agreeing with critisim doesnt mean im not open. It just means that i have valid reasons to back my own opinions.
@madeleine_swe im not defensive at all. Its just not as black or white as you might percieve it. You dont have the whole picture.
@chrismada9 we drink our coffee brewed and strong. I personally prefer espresso w milk.
i have thought about staring an english account when im done here but not sure if i have time. @bonlao
You know that shitty parent in the park using its iphone and totally ignoring its kid? Thats me.
@loghaD this is a good advice.
@chrismada9 we do have it. But american coffee sucks. ;-p we like it strong and european. Heh.
@madeleine_swe not really no. But i dont wanna discuss her publicly.
@Eruannster my husbands brothers OWN avalanche.
@RamblingMan_IRL ask me anything!
that is sooo common. When you respond to them with valid arguments they go bananas. @loghaD
@TantKakelugn ja jag spyr en del på twitter. Vart skulle jag annars spy? Frivlligt att lyssna o jaggör mitt bästa för att hålla schysst nivå
@madeleine_swe i generaly dont get into discussions about stuff i have no clue about.
@madeleine_swe maybe i just dont agree with them? Nothing is written i stone. Experts? What experts?
I dont let it pass though. Not bc i need to defend myself but because someone needs to stand up against bullies. Its fucking hammer time!
Or people who will argue “cant you take critisism?!” when theyve said something shitty. Please dont confuse critisism with plain rudeness.
Honesty is not equal to saying everything you think every time.
People who act like mean assholes for no reason and then excuse themselves with “im just honest!”. No youre not. Youre an asshat.
@TantKakelugn läs igenom min konversation. De är ju precis det du säger. Jag sa att du var elak, du svarade “som du då”.
and that is a GOOD thing. I listen to valid arguments. Not just any. @madeleine_swe
that i seem to not take in what other argue against me is not cuz i lack the ability. Its cuz im sure of myself my beliefs @madeleine_swe
im very certain in my views and beliefs. Not cuz im stubborn but cuz i have made it my business to research stuff im into. @madeleine_swe
@TantKakelugn lägg av. Jag är inte elak har definitivt INTE hoppat på enskilda individer.
@TantKakelugn jaså. När? Vem?
@tylikcat true! Same here. Intent is everything imo.
@smamat saffransfisk med nakenhavre!
NEVER! I’M PERFECT! Nah, j/k. I do listen to constructive critisism and try to learn from it. @madeleine_swe
this is true. I tend to listen to construcive critisism and learn from it. Even if i hate it @loghaD
@reneebacke medborgarplatsen. (södermalm)
@TantKakelugn har jag varit oprovocerat elak mot dig?
@TantKakelugn ok. Om det får dig att må bra sp bjuder jag på det. Spy av dig.
@elkiano what for?
what was your point with that comment? Other than being mean i mean? @TantKakelugn
I really hate critisism. I mean, why do people pretend they like it? I just wanna punch the person delivering it.
I can dwell foreverrr if someone says something negative.
Maybe i shouldnt reveal that I have a youtube account.
If youre in stockholm “svarta lådan” (black box) is the place to eat. They offer low carb and even no carbs. http://t.co/ksYKwIvl
Nah. Im not alone! Little piggy little piggy is with me! http://t.co/8094tAC0
no no. We have rehabilitation here. Not euthanasia. ;-) @APerfectWorld
ILL GO TO LUNCH ALL ALONE THEN! http://t.co/F12SbFBD
So husband is not at his work. And not answering phone. If i didnt know better id say he was avoiding me.
For god sake, i have pen pals on death row! Now they take asshole to another level. Heh.
Trolls who spew negativity reminds me of negging losers. Being assholish to score points. Ive been around the block though. Not impressed.
@wworkergates am not! * stomp stomp slam!*
My husband works as an eh effect something something artist at a computer game company. This. http://t.co/TRNqPo3D
@jennieschafer yup. But very few have it documented.
@wworkergates i have a salary and i live with husband and two kids. But great job being a prejudiced asshat!
Ok. Work out for an hour. See ya!
@PenTroll yes they did.
@emretsson its a differene between failng and deliberatelly do it though!
@elkiano really? Why?
@the_turtle noooo. I love crayfish!
Not that I dont understand the desire to hit the little bastards at times. I wanna hit my kids at least ten times a day. Never will though.
If you have to hit your child you have failed somewhere. No it doesnt make you a bad parent. But its bad parenting.
In sweden its illegal to spank or use any physical punishment on your children. This includes swat on the fingers, pinching, smacking.
@kchannel9 kids and their imagination!
@lobbin heheh. Apparently.
i would love to see you keep track of 15 vestless kids running around in a park with 100 other kids. Or in the woods. ;-) @SirWB
they need these vests for two reasons: 1. so cars can see them. 2.so the teachers will see them from far away when out n about. @SirWB
@beancurdled he owns a computer game company. Heh.
Almost all children in sweden go to preschool. From the age of 1. This (pic) is a very common sight here: http://t.co/oszO2R75
@EQvarnstroem HU-fucking-RAH!!!! <3
@sherlaimov i want them to have a mood. Im an artist.
@CLRgrrl södra station
@beancurdled raised by hippies. Became rich through hard work.
@kchannel9 i think it has many arms. And a window for ass. (daughters explanation)
An ordinary swedish train station. On my way to work out with the personal trainer from hell. Shes great though. http://t.co/xeJc7REP
@kchannel9 its ok. What was your questions then?
I work fulltime. (blog, write articles, design websites) i have two children. Choirs. Friends. Interest. Work out. Mail to be replied to.etc
you who feel ignored because i havent replied to your tweets. Dont take it personal! I get HUNDREDS of tweets per hour. I just cant keep up!
@beancurdled yes. A rich brother.
@BeechersBrooks next time, use google! Just type “193 cm in pounds” and it will tell you!
@kchannel9 how is it weird. I get HUNDREDS of tweets from you guys PER HOUR. Would you be able to respond to all?
@kchannel9 i have replied to a shitload of friendly ones. Look at my tweets.
@tommlie i think everyone else in the world is short but yes. Scandinavians are tall.
i figured everyone was familiar with pounds. @baisalov
@oldschooldsl cant see the video. Break it down for me? What rights are we losing?
@oldschooldsl sweden is probably in the lead of the world, all areas of equality. But far from equal.
Ok. Per request. Husband is 195cm and 96kilograms.
@aendu we dont. But most people understand feet and pounds, no?
@oldschooldsl no i havent ignored you. But i have thousands of followers and a life to tend to. Cant answer all. What was your q’s?
Ten of those pounds may be my ego. Not sure. Its likely.
I am 5.2″ and weighs 170 pounds.
4 of those pounds may be the beard.
My husband is 6.4″ and weighs about 210 pounds. He is quite big. #viking
Did I tell you that my husband is descendant of the swedish king gustav vasa? This is true. http://t.co/gIS59wo6
@LiesMorlion great method. I did a mix. Im too nervous.
HAPPY TEN THOUSAND TWEETS TO ME! http://t.co/qpYURZf2
This is a robot that makes pies. http://t.co/cRJ4VIcA
@SaraMJElofsson i use the word perfect in a negative matter.
@borntorun07 that was not my intention.
@borntorun07 you have a very aggressive defensive approach. Maybe not intentionally, but you have.
@STLwolverine normal people, all ages and sizes!
@borntorun07 you sound angry
@augustjanse oh ja!
@augustjanse syns vad?
@JoserraPR not really.
@borntorun07 i like movies. I would like someone to make good ones. Touchy subject?
If a movie has a perfect woman with fake lips in it i know its gonna suck.
… With blue tinted glow-in-the-dark teeth.
Its like that movie the fog. First version 1980. Normal looking, even ugly, people. In their 30′s and 40′s. The remake: 20 year old models.
I want REAL people. I want to be able to identify with characters. I cant identify with fake lips, fake tans, silicone and perfection.
Dear hollywood. Stop making movies and series with unrealistic blue-teethed supermodels. I just cant watch shit like that. Ruins it.
@Kiint we have a few of those!
Some question my love for Family Guy but the show is a satire. Boldly making fun of sexists, racists and other stereotypes and prejudices.
@Cedgell i see FG as a satire. Boldly challenging sexism, racism etc.
So Ninja says the other day that “family guy is my favourite show!”. #proud
B-b-b-bird, bird, bird, b-bird is the word
Well, there seem to be an absence of a certain ornithological piece…
hooters would probably never work here. No. @ivaluconnects
So. Have you not heard?
@borgmi dont eat meat!
@JoeriMe we have balls made from soy in the freezer!
no we dont eat meat @fsoulabaille
Swedes like to eat rotten, no im sorry “fermented” fish. It does not smell ok.
@javmb how about surströmming?
BEHOLD! The swedish fridge! http://t.co/ydgPZfIL
Ok, bring forth note pads and cameras. I will show my fridge in a minute. A GENUIN SWEDISH REFRIDGERATOR! (or however thats spelled)
I love tacos. The swedish bastardized version that is. Never had real.
A new swedish tradition is to eat tacos (!!) on fridays. If you wanna be Svensson (the avarage swede) this is a must. http://t.co/6wsqqVBw
In sweden, on thursdays, traditionally we eat yellow pea soup with pork and pancakes. http://t.co/6Zb1CJir
@FriederikeHell thats exactly what im saying.
@Vassaste_Kniven ofta märker kvinnor inte ens att de är gravida föräns försent. Plus abort är en hälsorisk.
@Vassaste_Kniven klaga hos moder natur liksom. Kvinnan har inte heller ett lätt val alla gånger.
@FriederikeHell > and later blames the woman for not taking hers.
@FriederikeHell that i agree. But my question was re the conception: “whos to blame”. Too many men just dont care about protection >
HEAR YE HEAR YE! Bring forth note pads. Dinner tonight: pasta with cream, guacamole, soy-nuggets, mushrooms. http://t.co/6m4qFxFX
@FriederikeHell it doesnt matter if the partner is stupid. E cant be resonsible for you. Only you can.
@ladyWTF what would be the solution then? Let the man decide?
@ladyWTF i happen to know lots of men who stepped up even when they didnt want it. However the man can chose to be absent.
@Vassaste_Kniven he has the choice not to have intercorse. He has the choice to be absent A choice few women can make once the child is born
@JHeaton416 this is true
@Vassaste_Kniven its not a choice they can make. At all.
@Vassaste_Kniven i dont think its fair that people die from driving drunk either. Etc.
@Vassaste_Kniven > can chose.
@Vassaste_Kniven i dont think its right that i should be forced to abort or give birth after a mistake like that but thats not something i >
@MeeraGhani im not refering to extreme cases
@ladyWTF the CHILD have a right to both parents. And how do you know the father is unqualified?
@FriederikeHell sure but can you blame your partner when YOU made a stupid choice?
Only you can take responsability for you. And if shit happens, your own actions probably put you there.
Sure, one should be able to trust their partner but shit do happen. She/he can forget. Screw it up. Etc. Its serious business.
@michiexile sure. But shit CAN happen. Your partner can forget. Etc. You can only be responsible for you.
i might fuck a complete shithead with zero sence of responsability. So if I dont want a child I make sure to take percausion. @Rav_Bunneh
sure. But i cant blame my partner for not protecting himself if i dont take responsability for myself. And my own. @Rav_Bunneh
@FriederikeHell yeah. Exactly. So whos fault would it be if i got pregnant after drunken unprotected sex?
Almooooost home now. Going anywhere with kids is like pulling a tooth. Slowly. With a pair of tweezers. http://t.co/0r9hGpgi
And if you chose not to protect yourself during sex, then whos responsability is it when you or your partner becomes pregnant?
If you dont want to become a parent, why do you leave the question of protection on someone else? Is it worth the risk?
and if the woman gets pregnant and decide to give birth, both parents need to step up and own their shit. No excuses. @ladyWTF
same for men.if his woman gets pregnant,his actions led to that.If he doesnt want a baby he use proection or dont have intercourse. @ladyWTF
secondly, no one is blaming anyone. If i get pregnant its my own fault for not protecting myself. @ladyWTF
first of all, there are thousands upon thousands of different feminist with dirferent perspective. There is no “true feminist”. @ladyWTF
@ladyWTF its certainly not. People chose to have intercourse and therefor chose the possible consequences which could be a baby.
@ladyWTF this opinion doesnt make me less of a feminist and its ridiculous of you to even suggest it.
@ladyWTF if they still chose to have vaginal intercourse they know what could happen.
@ladyWTF this is not something that can ever be equal. Women carry the child therefor her decision to abort or not. Men knows this.
@ladyWTF exactly. So whos forcing men to have sex against their will?
@gogolecat yes one of each. I dont believe in restricting too much. I rather broaden. Give them access to both hello kitty and batman.
if the man sticks his dick in a woman he knows of every possible consequense. Chose the actions, chose the consequences. @ladyWTF
@ladyWTF because his actions caused te pregnancy to begin with. How is it feminist to put all responsability on the woman?
@ladyWTF how is that related to feminsm?
@gogolecat both my kids have hello kitty. Why not? Colourful and happy.
@Nejy75 im not promoting anything. Im twittering from this account as myself. Like it was asked of me. :-)
lol. What is a “complete feminist?” are there a set of rules one must follow? @ladyWTF
@ladyWTF whats a semi-feminist?
@harodani blocks. Lego. Paint. But also dolls.
@Kalaroon you have to do what feels right for YOU.
nah i have two small kids. People like me dont have sex. @OohBrilliant
If i were to breatsfeed in the toilet i would most likely piss off customers needing to pee or shit! @MalinSusanna
Enough playing. We’re going to pick up groceries and go home. Yes. That was interesting info. Make sure you take notes http://t.co/OVHtXlSM
@Johnssonskan nah. Inte tillräckligt. Molo är finare!
@STLwolverine no. But they do have dresses. Short tunic type dresses.
@Johnssonskan nej nej, ninjas jacka är villervalla men resten är HM och Lindex!!
For those of you who cant find gender neutral clothing, mix and match from both sections works too! Thats what i do. http://t.co/2DF3ffxn
Im not an outdoorsy person but today is park day with kids. http://t.co/8fVMbUoj
@LivingScarecrow she is too small for harry. But soon enough!
@ellaboheme im in stockholm
@Trilska ju fler sätt att ge närhet på desto bättre.
@Trilska fel och fel. Amning skadar inte tänderna alls. Och närhet kan man få utan att kramas men inte slutar du krama för det?
We dont have enough of it so when it the sun does show, swedes try to squeeze all they can out of it.
The weather is wonderful today! Warm winds and sun! When the first sun comes, swedes throw their clothes. You can see sun bathers i april.
@tommlie yes. Södermalm.
@karllindmark korsningen götgatan och ringvägen så ja.
@FLIPveloso chilly but not cold. Still warm winds and sun.
I am sad! Lost Tamlins tiny sneaker! http://t.co/wmwyUcW2
If youre in Stockholm. “söder” is the place to be. Heres the food and the people. http://t.co/QgtSrH4u
@FriederikeHell of course its ok.
@ACPen1202 in sweden doctors recommend one year.
@ACPen1202 says who? World health organisation recommends two years or MORE.
@trollnystan its understandable. Youre not used to it. But its normal and natural.
@DPontes_ yes and once old enough the child will wean itself.
My daughter breastfeed til age 3,5. My son till he was 1,5. #breastfeedingriot
If its sick to feed it should be sick regardless of age? No? Whats the difference?
And about age and when to wean. For some reason feeding your newborn is ok but it suddenly becomes perverted after a certain age.
“@llanelliboy: @sweden 2.5 to 7 according to my lactation consultant wife.” natural age of weaning
@jillajordan its pretty tolerant. It is.
@darlinbec damn right!
@amhranai haha nah they learn that early
@thelittlepakeha yup. Between 2 and 4
@ellaboheme that upsets me. I wouldve stormed that place with tits if i lived close.
Do you know the natural age of weaning? #breastfeeding
Thank you! I was going nuts! “@riptari: @sweden *Discreet*”
@jacrats we need a law like that. Swedes are generally pretty tolerant though.
Its important for me to feed publicly without covering up. Anyone who doesnt like it can put a blanket over THEIR head. #breastfeedingriot
But once upon a time I did feel shame.And lots of women still do bc of public attitude. It confines women to their homes. #breastfeedingriot
I dont give a shit if me breastfeeding offends. I refuse to cover up. I refuse to be discrete. I refuse to feel shame! #breastfeedingriot
So when people tell me “how hard can it be to be discrete” i laugh. I LAUGH. #breastfeedingriot
When i had my first baby breastfeeding was hard. She would kick, scream, not latch on properly etc. I was nervous and stressed and panicked.
How come she can dress like that without anyone caring but when I feed my child I should “cover up”? #breastfeedingriot
Yeah. You know where this is going.
How about this one then? http://t.co/i8P4DUNO
I DONT BELIEVE YOU! “@chinji: @sweden you realize zombies are in no way shape or form even remotely possible… They aren’t, ever.”
Anyone offended by this picture? http://t.co/hgPSNWPt
@bio99sva inte på rak arm. Men tricket är att kombinera från båda avdelningar!
If i were to post pictures of a big breasted woman in a tiny bikini, would anyone take offence? No nips.
Yeah she can handle herself. With a stick. TAKE THAT YOU ZOMBIE! http://t.co/yHjk7tie
I know youre waiting for tits. Be patient.
Our usual morning routine. Zombie-training of course. http://t.co/sSlGmEIj
Breakfast is served. http://t.co/jnGc0OkS
@matjaztwit what picture and why?
@avfallskvarnen den var läbbig!
@delilahjesinkey why not?
the new fast zombie was brilliant in dawn of the dead. I mean what the fuck is scary about someone walking slower than my grandma?
@shanda1701 oh crap
They certainly have. AND THEYRE WRONG! “@DJDarren: @sweden Has anyone tweeted you to tell you that 28 Days isn’t a zombie film yet?”
@DJDarren oh yes.
@cahl oh my head might implode from excitement. Thanx!
@Mike_Quist yeah. Assholes and asshats.
@cahl i would definitelly define it zombie. Modern version.
If you like post-apo and slow you need to watch the brittish series “survivors”. I loved it. No zombies though. Just deadly flu killing all.
And i do like walking dead. Despite the characters. I like the post-apo feel and the slow pace.
Best zombie movies ever though is 28 days and dawn of the dead (new) Im not old school.
Definitelly small’uns. @cataclysmicha
Im off to bed. Tomorrows topic: Tits. Hooters. Big’uns. Boobs. (and more)
@imogenbirley haha a lot i about satan and hell
@jmcouceiro haha i know!
@eyegraphic my fellow greek know what im talking about. They swear even more than swedes!
@lmashell like with crocodiles!
@ylle god me too! ” the men are out there handling it”. I wouldve bitchslapped her ass. And the mens for not helping out.
I see curse words as enriching our language. They put colours to our sentences. Words are not bad. Its the way theyre used that is.
@JensLennartsson i know! Annoys the shit outta me!
@DJFunkyGrrL i dont think i ever met a swede who doesnt use the word shit (skit) every day. Or “jävla”. (fucking).
It doesnt help that my husband, the game designer, is making a zombie game next to me.
Its just not logical that half of the group wouldnt contribute. (women) its not logical that they wouldnt fight too.
Same here. We dont censor curse words on tv or radio. Youre pretty much allowed to sat anything. @AmbroosV
Specially shit. Even kids. Doesnt raise eyebrows. It surprises me that it offends some. Not my intention. Just the way i talk.
Three people have asked why i “use profanities”. Not saying that swedes do that a lot, but generally people here use words as fuck and shit.
@DanBratt99 its my way of expressing myself. I was told to be myself.
God yes! What the fuck is that about? The women just being idle, hiding in corners? Wtf? I would be fighting for my life. @ylle
Good thing about sweden though is that come winter those fuckers are iced.
Can zombies walk stairs?
Huge fear: zombie attack when im out with the kids. Im fat and the kids cant run that fast.
@quirky_yardy thats why you need a long knife. What happens when you run out of arrows? I dont even know how to use a bow!
And theres seriously not enough killing. With a good tool you could easily clean up.
If it was me id zombie train my little brats AND keep them on short leash.
It really pisses me off in zombie movies that the people are so fucking stupid. Like walking dead. WHO THE HELL LET THEIR KIDS ROAM FREE?!!
I admit i have some perverse fantasy of an apocalypt coming true. @Smoothiver
@Lighteria jag har pratat om väldigt mycket mer än könsroller.
@TheCalenestel yeah but swords have some serious weight. Machetes are light.
Machete or crowbar is my weapon of choce. Guns and sucy are useless. Bullets run out and make too much noise.
american werewolf in london? I saw it when i was about seven. Just in case you wonder why this (pic) freak me out. http://t.co/XvkQkR6W
You all agree it seems. Zombie fear is never irrational. Pew. Or wait….
And dont get me started on werewolves. But zombies. Serious business.
I always have a plan in the back of my head. Just in case of a zombie apocalypse.
Am I the only one with an irrational zombie fear?
@Lighteria vad var syftet med den tweeten?
@Lighteria seriously, who is talking about forbidding? Are you really comparing me to s dictator because i dont buy a shitload of toys?!
@FriederikeHell youre a minority. Like me.
@AnnPassa its almost i impossible. I try to compensate.
@Lighteria i was reffering to the crap you find in tve stores with only one predesigned possibility.
@AnnPassa thats sad. Ask her why.
About my last retweet: we do drink our tap water. How about you?
@Lighteria really? They grow on trees or bushes?
im a loudmouth feminist that doesnt shave. But i recieve more angry comments when i post about my weight and me liking myself. @franosch
not strange though. We shove adult hetero love down their throats with disney and fairytales. @FriederikeHell
Childrens room. Colourful. We try not to have too many toys. Toys kill creativity. http://t.co/0KI5pv8d
Husband decorates. He bought the curtains and pillows and lamps and is the interior nazi of this family. Yes he is a gem. I make the mess.
More browness. Maybe ill show my books later. I have some great ones. We really like lamps btw. http://t.co/etPivPRW
Our livingroom is small. And brown. http://t.co/Ykv64o9D
Youve seen most of the kitchen but heres my favorite corner. My husband says its messy. Pft! I say. http://t.co/mbfHABwC
So who wanna visit a pretty un-ordinary swedish home? Im afraid that my home doesnt look like IKEA but its warm and welcoming!
@franosch my guess is that youre not a fat woman who doesnt hate herself. ;-)
You know whats really provocative? A fat woman who doesnt hate herself.
This is how swedes decorate. http://t.co/Kct7PplL
Hey, its international downs syndrom day! Lets say hurrah for those awesome guys and gals! http://t.co/2ab4fKCQ
@freshestfish oh yeah
@tommlie i could!
@katteskes i think so too. But im pretty radical in other areas.
@Ardeyargull polarn o pyret, villervalla and danish brands: småfolk and molo
I am so seriously impressed by all of you. <3
@crrly had i known i was gonna become a famous parenting and feminism blogger i wouldve changed it! Lol.
@crrly it started twelwe years ago. I became a member at serial killer central and decided to pick a fitting name. Lady dahmer. It stuck.
@crrly of course it unsettles me
@thedjuke oh god yes
@connylindwall sure, but what does that have to do with giving my kids 100 possibilities instead of 2?
@walrashoud i think youre reading way too much into this. My kids are free to wear, play with and be whoever they want.
@walrashoud well that doesnt apply to me.
This is what my kids wear. Explain to me how this is worse and more enforcing than the previous. http://t.co/bGxDskuT
This is what girls tend to wear. http://t.co/gyqULQVj
This is what boys tend to wear. http://t.co/GQOviiw8
what their kids like is what theyve been taught to like. Im giving my kids the opportunity to discover more than the norm. @walrashoud
@walrashoud my kids are allowed to wear the rainbow. Clothes from both sides and inbetween. Most parents will refuse pink for boys etc.
@walrashoud how is this worse than parents who only pick clothes from the girls section?
@walrashoud for the record, i do buy gender specifik stuff. From both sides.
@walrashoud but its not extreme to buy gender specific stuff only? Like most parents do.
@walrashoud how is that bad?
@walrashoud i dont. But im aware of how society do.
ive seen a lot of friendships between kids destroyed by adults teasing about love. @NFSSmith
the thing is that you teach kids that boys and girls CANT be friends. Also when they get older it might be embarressing. @NFSSmith
@NFSSmith just ask her why! Most do it without thinking
@PurpleTravel sing the theme of pippi långstrump. (youtube it)
I also dont assume my brats are heterosexual.
Or maybe you allow kids to be kids and friends without putting any judgement or expectations in it? I do!
when your kid is playing with a kid of the opposite sex; do you sat theyre in love? Joke about marriage? Force heteronorms down its throat?
@shanda1701 no! Half baked!
@nikideerocks interesting guess!
@STLwolverine both. We learn brittish in school, american on tv
I like to put in a good word for the fanny pack! Practical, comfortable and … eh …. Practical! http://t.co/BLNX19Ki
this is why i have a fanny pack! (this deserve its own topic) @tylikcat
@SirJolt might work!
@JamesNolan youre thinking of sex. Regardless though, if its a biological fact then gender neutral attitude should be the obvious choice.
Can you guess my stance on breastfeeding? Long term? Public? Or maybe ill tweet about ice cream. I really like ice cream. We’ll see!
Im thinking i might tweet about tits tomorrow.
@JamesNolan in what way?
@ihelvete my point is that everyone is irresponsible at times and everyone makes mistakes.
@ihelvete and i disagree.
@ihelvete i havent accused you of anything let alone being pro-life.
@ihelvete condoms break.
@ihelvete because its very black and white and hypocritical. Ive had regular sex for the past 22 years. Id say 3 abortion is a good ratio
also, i dont think abortion is a big deal. I dont enjoy them, but if shit happens i have a choice. @ihelvete
@ihelvete i dont risk my health with hormones to use something else. Now i have a spiral. No pills.
@ihelvete no, ive done stupid shit. Was just lucky enough not to get pregnant then.
@ihelvete i think you have a holier than thou attitude.
for the record, i was on the pill two of the times. Not that it should matter. Sometimes you do stupid shit. @ihelvete
Well, congratulations to never making any dumb, irresponsible or fucked up choices! Youre one of a kind.Me? I do it all the time. @ihelvete
Leaving to fetch kid from day care. Have to wake up the short one. Damn. Was enjoying the peace. http://t.co/Fng7YET4
@cataclysmicha wishful thinking. Kids will have sex. Regardless.
@MrsMacchi i dont think swedes start earlier than anyone else. We do however have less teen pregnancies than other countries.
@shadowspar my thougts exactly!
@flork82 even if it was restricted by law it wouldnt be equal. Its still the womans body and regarless of the outcome, still an assault.
@flork82 and when they cant agree?
@flork82 yes and no. Men can and do actively chose not to be fathers. Women rarely have that same choice once the child is born
@SoLongSiv män kan välja bort aktivt föräldraskap. Det är svårare för kvinnor. Det är kvinnan som bär barnet därför måste valet ligga där
@SoLongSiv grejen är att de inte har nåt val och de vet de. Tyvärr. Kan aldrig bli rättvist i den frågan.
I used to be pro-life. Believe it or not. Almost a rabid one too. Untill it happened to me.
@SunnyinSyracuse i meant survivors.
@thornlordslady not yet
SO, WHO WANTS TO SEE AN ARMPIT? (nah, just trying to lighten up the mood)
Have you seen children from failed illegal abortions? Do you know how many women die from them?
Also, in countries where abortion is illegal, the abortion rate is basically still the same as countries where its legal.
For the record. Im not speaking for everyone in sweden. These are my own opinions.
Or is it just about sexual morals? Punishing “lose” women. Yes. #imo
Also a lot of those who argue that abortion is murder will still be ok with it if the woman was raped. Is it less murder then?
@DatNacho feminism fokuserar på kvinnofrågor ja. Men inte enbart.
@Stichflamme i could never carry a child for nine months and give it away.
@loghaD that is true!
Ive had three. Wasnt devastated at all. Just felt relief. @vonhorst
I dont know about you guys but i have done a lot of irresponsible shit. Sometimes you make stupid choices. Drunk, horny, “wont happen to me”
And this holier than thou thing people got going on; “well you shouldve made sure you didnt get pregnant to start with!”
@ihelvete what would be responsible about giving birth instead?
Chose the actions, chose the consequenses.
@NotaBeneNB absolutelly. But like i said, in the end its the womans choice.
@AnonOpsSweden its a public debate, not a list of numbers. Hard to prove.
absolutelly. Each one take resonsability for themselves. If she doesnt want to get pregnant, she protects herself. @TassadarWS
@Stichflamme not for me.
@DatNacho even if she is on the pill shit happens. Are you prepared to take the risk? What about hiv?
If they cant agree the choice is the womans. @NotaBeneNB
@jonaspeterson offentlig debatt och attityder.
Anyone who has had an abortion know its not a walk in the park. I doubt anyone who is healthy and feel ok would do more than necessary.
Although thus idea that some women use abortion as birth control is a myth. Women who do multiple either are overly fertile or depressed.
i rather have them continuing to have abortions. Rather than giving birth. @Ardeyargull
I know what you mean but kinda disagree. People who use abortion as birth controll will continue to have irresonsible sex. @Ardeyargull
How many women would do the opposite? Oh, youre sterile! ILL TRUST YOU! Nah.
Its not possible to be afather against your will unless you were raped. But a lof of men put the responsability of protection on the woman
Ive got news for them; if you know how babies are made and you still stick your dick in a woman you know shit could happen.
In sweden we do have a problem with abortion almost being expected of the woman. A lot of men claiming to “be a father against my will”.
@McWolfe sounds reasonable!
@FlashMcDonnell not necessarily!
@FlashMcDonnell well maybe not!
@MajorBedhead yeah crazy people. Most of them. Have met a few nice ones though.
@FlashMcDonnell legal and free.
is an unwanted child supposed to be a punishment? Oh you fucked and didnt protect yourself so here you go bitch! Nah.
Some might argue that if you fuck up (forget protection etc) you should take responsability but abortion IS being responsible.
I believe children should be wanted and welcomed. Not necessarily planned, but welcomed. #imo
Abortion was suggested. Ive had a few myself. Not for fun as some pro-lifers might suggest but because it was the best choice at the time.
@DarkMatterzine yeah. But apparently it “looks like a mans” if you dont keep it under hard knock controll.
@anatsuno why ladydahmer of course
Ok. No more hair tweets. For now. On to somethig else? How would you feel about menstruation? Too much? Just checking.
Cant really take credit for that one. One of my swedish followers tweeted it. Just so you know. But we can pretend.
If the untamed natural female body “look like a mans” what do the natural male body look like? Dog? Woman? Truck?
@queerpup hästhov which means horses hoof
Swedish spring is always fantastic. And you know spring is here when you see this little gal. Tussilago in latin. http://t.co/fKoGDc7z
Im an atheist. On good days an agnostic. But with weather like this even I see magic. http://t.co/Nj8xZkyt
@mazzamozzy i notice you
@CraigLautenberg my daughter has the same shirt
Another good thing about having saggy tits is that they keep your armpits warm when lying down.
@mercierln im in touch with the author. Ill suggest it!
@mercierln my sister in law is canadian. She tells me that too.
@mercierln read it, own it, bought it to everyone i know
I somehow doubt Ill be lying on my death bed wishing I wouldve cleaned more. Just saying.
Of course its suppose to look like this. Latest trend: organized mess. http://t.co/XQKkwevf
No. Day started good, ended not so good. Migraines really get this feminist down. BUT NOT FOR LONG.
Mr. Migraine. We meet again. Now I will destroy you. http://t.co/bt5zP5NX
@flork82 while looks shouldnt matter, looks can be fun to experiment with. I am however damaged. I want to spare my kid that.
@jamespage79 no that one is great! Its pee and poo!
@CowbellLHarris its great
Dear santa. I wish for five minutes ALONE on the sofa. http://t.co/16RYO4Rl
@28481k nah. Occasionally we do eat fish. But mostly yes.
@CowbellLHarris nope. It disolves instantly in water.
@MsIvarsson no it contains mineral oil!
An ordinary swedish father makes dinner. Ordinary Ninja helps. Vegetarian of course. http://t.co/TloPNLsF
Must everything a feminist do be feminist? “@mejadesign: is it really feminist to post photos sitting on the toilet?”
@mejadesign must everything a feminist do be feminist?
@swedishgurl just water! It disolves instantly!
@swedishgurl yes. Although stuff that cleans too well should be avoided!
I use honey for my face. As a wash or mask. Sometimes together with baking soda as a scrub. Better than any commercial product. #nopoo
@ianbrice my face. Wash, mask
@tiinajf all different types of glitter!
@sweden_cul no! No ‘poo way!
@louesejackson not a programmer but not really designer either! Effects, design and lots more.
@Konvention they are sneaky like that
@DoyonMalin världens bästa ansiktsskrubb!
@sweden_cul great facial wash!
… Either i dropped the iphone or the herd turned agaist me.
Tweeting from bathtub. If I go silent, there are two possible things that mightve happened. http://t.co/DW3Rj4EZ
Nah just kidding. I have a migraine. It helps tying something around the head.
Latest fashion in sweden. http://t.co/xrcuDQ4g
@ben_turner its ok. I AM an attenion whore. Try to use it for good though.
You must stop saying all these smart and nice things. I cant retweet all of you! (no dont stop)
@Dolphinized not an unusual sight! Well not that i hang around airports but you know what i mean!
Shit, @sweden s followers are fucking amazing. And CLEVER. gives me hope. Makes me happy!
@shanda1701 so do i! Fuck the hetero norm!
Now its called “post patriarch feminist cunt”.
Its funny though this attention whore business. My blog used to be called “confessions of a neurotic attention whore”!
My husband makes computer games for a living. He also do it on his free time. (trying to make an iphone zombie one) http://t.co/hVycIfQl
@Willejms i certainly dont!
@nikideerocks like i said; it comes with expectations.
@wworkergates what would you prefer? This is actually what i get payed to do! Lol
OH NOES! catzilla! http://t.co/s7ADDa7R
i have more in common with a middle class swedish man than a woman from Uganda. @nikideerocks
my genitals (or skin or hair etc) doesnt tell you what kind of person i am or what qualities/interests i have. @nikideerocks
the thing is that INDIVIDUALS are different and unique. It has nothing to do with gender. Or race. Or hair colour. @nikideerocks
canada! The country almost as perfect as sweden! (so ive heard) @leighsaunders70
I think maybe youre confusing genitals/sex with gender/gender roles? The latter is a construction. @nikideerocks
no but just as race or haircolour shouldnt define you, neither should gender. @nikideerocks
@shirleybar it will be a challange and my kids will be affected. Therefor a have a compensatory way.
We have doctors, bankers, teachers etc that have tattoos, piercings, dreads, hijabs, etc. #theswedishway
Sure, looks matter in the real world. But this is sweden. People that looks like me (tattoos, piercings) can get a job in most places.
@MrsJBV that is true. But i wanna teach my kids better.
being a boy or girl comes with rules and expectations. @nikideerocks
@nikideerocks i dont agree. Gender roles robs you of half.
@ChrisGurr thats like saying you focus on race when discussing racism.
@MrsJBV i dont agree. Sure if its rarely. But it tells the child their looks has importance.
Those of you who wonder about the “i dont tell my kid shes pretty”. i comfirm and SEE her i. Lots of other ways. She knows shes fantastic.
@pockster got lots here! But you can combine and make it less gender specific!
@eleni_sson hägersten? Sex minuter söder om centralen. Jag har familjen i pireaus!
@ChrisGurr thats your opinion. Im making a point. Looks is as relevant as race. If i focus on it it becomes important.
A lot of people tells me that me not complimenting my daughters looks will damage just as much. But no one says the same about my son.
My way of raising enables the child to be either way, regardless of gender. Theres nothing boyish or girlish, both roles are available.
Although its kind of ok for girls because thats a step up. A boy being like a girl is stepping down because girly stuff are worth less.
A girl who doesnt wear dresses or pink or play with dolls but rather like to do typical boy things are a tom boy. (= not a “real” girl)
A boy who likes pink or dolls and dont want to climb trees or wrestle will be concidered wrong. Girly. Sissy. Gay. (= not a “real” boy)
If youre a girl youre supposed to act and dress and look and be a certain way. And if youre a boy you should fulfil the boy role.
Stereotypes only allows one role, depending on gender. #genderroles
Gender roles tells my child she has to like certain things or have certain qualities.
Most people have expectations and prejudices about boys n girl which influence and affect the way we respond to them.
my daughter is the ONLY girl in her group that DOESNT ask “am i pretty?”. She is the only one who dont care. @ChrisGurr
@ChrisGurr how? Should i also comment on the color of her skin?
@figaropravda and what is a real normbreaker? And why not?
On my way home. I live about six minutes from the actual city. http://t.co/Dyzkus4C
@Varyaraco i dont like the words at all because they do segregate. Putting gender on qualities or things is weird.
@simondaninja jag upptäckte latten. Efter ca fem år i sthlm! (envis nörrlänning)
@vickylicious21 which affects the way we present it to them.
@vickylicious21 yes and no. We do encourage girls to study more than we do boys. But we assume girls arent into math and science.
@kingedeborg theyre wrong. the risk of sufficating your baby is as big as falling out of your bed when you sleep.
@figaropravda a little bit of both!
@Varyaraco how about human?
Now. Groceries! http://t.co/IrHf4KG4
Down town done. Sorry I didnt post photos of the scenery.
@ZoranPavlovicLj unfortunatelly yes
@FizaIsa which i never do!
@cilice in what way?
but yes i fulfill the norm in many ways. Im a product of my culture, time and society. @figaropravda
@figaropravda because a lot of people nominated me and because im somewhat wellknown.
@cilice sometimes. But i kniw it important and that it makes a difference.
“You will be pretty intelligent, pretty creative, pretty amazing, but you will never be merely “pretty.” #chills
“The word pretty is unworthy of everything you will be, and no child of mine will be contained in five letters.”
“When you approach me, begging, “Mom, will I be pretty?” I will wipe that question from your mouth like cheap lipstick and answer NO!”
If you havent seen this, you must now. Warning: chills and tears inducing. http://t.co/4iwOqVK3 “will i be pretty”
Rather than bombarding your child with messages that. GET THE FOCUS OFF HER LOOKS.
Even when we say, “Youre pretty as you are,” our minds are still on image, image, image – and we’re passing this onto our kids.
Just think about that for a moment: what does it tell little girls about themselves if their looks or clothes is the first thing we notice?
I dont want to teach her that her looks matter. But if i talk about it it makes her believe it has importance.
I never tell Ninja she looks pretty or that her clothes are pretty. I dont compliment her when she has nailpolish or when she wears a dress.
My daughter is the prettiest thing i know, BUT, she is far from a princess. Think Shrek. Yes. That awesome. http://t.co/tI1Adhg4
@nenafemme because, regardless of what i want. This is a big thing and the discussion is needed.
@jmcouceiro to take attention away from my nose! ;-P
@SirPrankmonkey varför är nån annans människas intressen ens värd diskussion? Jag tycker frimärken verkar dötrist.
@SirPrankmonkey dåligt ordval kanske. Men varför är det mer ok att titta på dumtv än att intressera sig för seriemördare?
@ahrnbom varför tittar man på skräckfilm? Varför säljer tidningar mer när hemska saker händer?
Body hair IS feminine. It distinguish us from children. Hair means ive become a woman. @_madmogs_
Only downside with sweden is the cold. But if it was warmer it would implode from its utter perfection. @acatinatree
@The_CheshireKat a little bit. Not so much but pale people will get comments. But rather pale than cancer!
@MaxWyattSampson yeah. A little. It made me sad. I also was friends with his close ones and was sad for them.
absolutelly!But i think most of us do thing out of habit. Because we’re taught. I just call for soul searching.”why do i do this?” @Apexare
I wanna be able to be me without being told im “unfeminine”, nasty, “manly” etc. #hairriot
But when others value me for not following the norm it pisses me off. That stubborn three year old in me sets her foot down and screams NO!
its up to every man or woman what to do. Shave, dont shave. Wear make up or dont. I dont put any judgments or values in that.
I dont have to worry about my sweaty smell annoying others on the train. No one will sit next to me. Thats the swedish way. We. Never. Do.
@johanwikner oh yes! AVOID EYE CONTACT!
if i were to worry about not getting on peoples nervs it would be a fulltime job! @FriederikeHell
@foddpaenmandag haha tack! <3
Breaking old norms doesnt mean we should create new ones. I didnt stop shaving because i think its wrong to shave.
Makeup and such should be fun. When you get to the point that it makes you feel bad to go without, it isnt fun or healthy anymore
I guess youre asking if i ever do shallow things like dress up or put on makeup? I do. @Apexare
@GeorgeNahadAziz not much. Unless you like to drink. But we’re friendly, progressive and cool.
@en_surkova no. Just a mum whos err creative. Heh.
@FriederikeHell not because im a selfish ass (well…) i have some issues. I dont get undressed infront of strangers. (thegym) cant do it.
@FriederikeHell you would probably not notice. Believe it or not, after i cool down i dont smell. But hey, dont really care. ;-)
@foddpaenmandag japp. Jag får betalt för att blogga. Men även för krönikor och debattartiklar emellanåt.
@SirPrankmonkey dt är väl bra mycket mer intressant att brevväxla med seriemördare än att glo på dumtv eller gå på ishockeymatch?
“@LSELT: Who needs the king and queen to represent us when we have this weeks @Sweden? Bättre rep. kan jag inte tänka mig!”
you know what? I actually HATE instagram. But the photoshop app sucked. I like making art. Im an artist. @israelubeda
Anna. Mah friend. http://t.co/5BAt7P9r
Enjoying myself. My friend Anna wants me to introduce the word “finch”. Which is fika + lunch. http://t.co/WaHbjhib
Sometimes Im asked why I dont shave. The answer is obvious. For the same reason that I dont put a bucket on my head or paint my toes blue.
Warning: unshaven SWEATY feminist walking. Probably smells. http://t.co/Du5Ks4fm
@MaxWyattSampson only one. Danny Rolling.
Ill be suffering now. See you in an hour. http://t.co/obI5NyKh
@cataclysmicha we sleep naked. Sex we do elsewhere. Unless theyre babies.
And you all know what this is. http://t.co/rQrMOUGv
Stopping at 7/11 for a milk carton. Why? Better than water when working out! Im about to be whipped. http://t.co/2yTcL8mf
@ddimitriadis its true!
Cosleeping do promote and build attachment though so if youre a parent that is away from home a lot, start sleeping with your kids!
@macahpla a little bit of both. Theres a lot of research that has been made on the subject.
I will however not be sad when they do get the hell outta my bed.
Besides adults cosleep. Imagine the look on husbands face if i told him it was time to start sleeping in his own bed!
And dont worry. Never heard of adults who still wanna sleep with their mum.
How long will we cosleep you ask? For as long as the kids want. I believe an abundance of closeness build independent kids.
So night was as good as to be expected from someone who cosleeps with kids.
@bill_zen_master i know! I am greek. My family is is pireaus. Kali mera elladha!
@ireland as good as expected when you cosleep with kids!
@moderntragedie i also have a cat!
My wittyness starts slow in mornings. Now: on the commute train going down town. Work out and lunch. Maybe fika. http://t.co/2lGXS6KC
@MaxWyattSampson no sk’s worth mentioning in Sweden.
@MaxWyattSampson just life. Thoughts. Behind the crimes theyre humans with human qualities. Most dont like talking about their crimes.
Of course its snowing. Thats sweden for ya. http://t.co/kcqv2mG4
God morning! http://t.co/jXqkkH9G
@MaxWyattSampson preference: sadists. Fiction is good when its movies. But i prefer true crime. (books)
@MaxWyattSampson i started writing twelve years ago. To see if i would get an answer. I did.
@MaxWyattSampson serial. No interest in mass. Dunno when it started. Childhood i guess. Reading about jack and manson. (latter not an sk)
@valeskocracy glad to hear that!
i doubt my opinion differs. But my interest might. I enjoy reading about them. Also have a few pen pals on death row. @MaxWyattSampson
Me and the short one is saying G’night! http://t.co/qAy6rzZ7
My first day is at its end. This was a lot of fun! Great followers, great challenge. Tomorrow Ill show you my favorite part of stockholm.
@etellurian herr nilsson / mr. Nilsson
@andrewlevine i meant original tv version.
Before bedtime the kids want their daily fix of Pippi Longstocking. The original version of course. http://t.co/sdCpUEpf
@silencewedge more where that came from!
@dailydag its too soon to say! In that age you just wanna fit in.
Reminds me of the time he said “that guy in the coat” about david bowie.
No Im not gonna divorce him. I will however remind and bully him about it regularly for the rest of his life.
Im married to a younger man. A lot younger apparently because the other day when I was playing Maiden he asked “who are you listening to?”
Fuck pancakes! We’re eating indian! http://t.co/XEQgCAe9
Husband is home. Btw, did I mention I married Chewbacca? http://t.co/HNVp60kd
@dailydag why failed? If you gave your kid all the opportunities they were more free than others.
My usual handle is @ladydahmer and i tweet in swedish. (a lot of you have asked)
@ungraveity errr ni
The best thing about having saggy tits is that you have somewhere to put your iphone.
And on top of all my husband just called and told me he is bringing home indian food! Tikka butter masala. HURRAH!
Yeah. This is how it goes. Swedish pancakes are thin. http://t.co/63gFMQFG
Lots of butter is mandatory. Dont try to be “healthy” and go light. Pancakes are not healthy anyway no matter what. http://t.co/OjcvEk46
@MarcusNordberg haha knappast. Svenska män är bäst. Jag älskar dem.
Half a liter of milk.
One dash of cream, one dash of water.
3 decilitres of flour. http://t.co/MmkuCycI
Kids are playing in their KIDS room. (not boy/girl/princess/batman room) I’m gonna make pancakes. Just for you! http://t.co/201n0Ffy
@kzelnio you get it just like everyone else.
my question is why people feel the need to tell me their sexual preferences. I prefer big dicks but i dont tell random men that. @Apexare
i dont get mad at people for not liking body hair. I get man at people trying to tell me what to do with my body. @Apexare
@ScientiaRex that is so sad.
@BanjoRocks what do you mean?
And now swedens holy sacrament; coffee
@aJimHolmes yup. Not fire. But hire for a certain period.
@NotaBeneNB no. But often it is.
@blikkie nah thats the right wing liberals opinion
@VinScimeca well almost.
@VinScimeca thats what i did!
@madeleine_swe cold as HELL
480. Not 489.
Thats 489 days PER CHILD. #parentalleave
@ladyhank959 per child. And everyone gets it. How much depends on your salary. If unemployed you get minimum.
@chrismada9 as well as expected when its windy and cold!
@Gwen1854 aw! Its great fun for them.
When all the shits have been made. We can leave. http://t.co/CUTGfHts
We have five weeks paid vacation a year and 365 days of paid sick leave. ( in a row) @Liedertafel_pdx no
In sweden we get 480 days of payed parental leave. 60 days each are ear marked for mum n dad. then split the rest as we want. #goodthings
My kid started daycare at the age of three. She loves it. http://t.co/yNBiEDbk
Aw crap. So the kid finally got all the clothes on. “have to poop!” she says.
Vincent. Ninjas cousin and best friend. http://t.co/D4DYAOrQ
@JHeaton416 yeah i heard. Crazy shit.
The child does not want to go home. http://t.co/TFLfifu4
Ninjas daycare is in the woods. http://t.co/O7FoYOOH
On my way. Shoes: traditional Sami beak boots. http://t.co/ZdiiRCWr
@ryanjohnkoch exactly. Do what you want!
The panic you feel when you’re late to pick up your kid at daycare and you need to take a shit before you leave. Crap. (pun intended)
@johntweetor occassionally. And then there will be hours in between.
@FizaIsa thats insane. Dont get me started on my own dad.
@mtsw definitelly connected! I might talk about that; why men commit these crimes at a higher rate. Hint; NOT biological.
We’re all products of our society, men and women.
Hey all men, dont worry about the rabid-ness i got going on. Just wait until i get started on the confinement of the male gender role!
@Skud he has a penis
Do you have to fight some weird urge in the morning NOT to wax your legs? #hairriot
NOT shaving and NOT using makeup is not a struggle. I dont have to “try hard” not to do all those things. Its not an effort. #hairriot
The idea that shaving is something you activly have to stop. Im not trying to not shave I couldnt be more passiv.
This whole idea that being a woman requires you to change your looks and body. No, i didnt stop shaving because i want to be a man.
Women dont become angry because theyre ugly. We become angry because we’re treated like second rate citisens.
One thing that irks me is the prejudice that all feminists are just ugly women who cant get a man. And therefor is for womens rights. Eh.
I enjoy discussing politics, serial murder, gender roles, breastfeeding and everything in between. I have an opinion about everything.
Im an arrogant know-it-all. (No, but I really do know it all) I’m slightly fat, happily married and a mother of two brats.
I’m Lady Dahmer. I’m from the worlds best country; Sweden. http://t.co/dzCPBxQJ
@schalkburger depends on the quantity of beer ive had
its like those people who argue that its cleaner to be circumsized. Ok. How about taking a shower once in a while instead? @MissTovah
No I’m not posting any pictures of my genital hair. No need to panic or unfollow.
“Bacteria and dirt gets stuck in the hair!” No shit sherlock?! That’s the fucking point.
A comment in my blog: “genital hair is not hygienic! Shave!” I’m always fascinated by men who gives me advice how to care for my vagina.
@immellda its from an old folks tale.
@Vassaste_Kniven hörrö! Jag ä från nörrland. Typ. Hudiksvall. (hälsingland) men bor i sthlm nu.
Now: pee pee time and a nap.
I might take a picture of my armpit later. Just to fulfill the stereotype. And because its fun.
@kchannel9 swedish book. However the name originates from a scottish folktale
@sisinricii i try not too.
@ElroyK its actually “Tam Lin” or “Tom Lin”. Doesnt mean anything that i know of.
@tylikcat i used to do karate. Two years. A long time ago. Its great!
its ok to shave and wear makeup, (regardless of gender) but when it becomes a “must” in order to feel good somethings off. @cataclysmicha
i also dont shave. I dont want my kids growng up thinking you have to adjust your body to be accepted. @cataclysmicha
I dont wear make-up except rarely. I dont wanna create NEW norms but i want to question the old ones @cataclysmicha
@tylikcat yeah we have some of that here too
@moisesjules i would love to live there even if it wasn for all your huge bugs! No havent been there but have one friend there
Tamlin is actually a scottish name. I read it in a book when i was 13 and decided then to name my kid just that.
my kids names are Ninja (the big one) and Tamlin (the short one) @genkitten
@heathergracious true! And boys get encouraged to take more risks and as adults top the statistics of injuries n acccidents
@tylikcat its getting worse and worse which is strange seeng as we are pretty aware here.
@ben_turner im not a nationalist. I just love my country.
Kids shouldnt have to worry about being cute.
I try to dress them in a way that doesnt generate focus on their looks. I want them to be oblivious to vanity for as long as possible.
Think about how that affects them. I do. A lot.
I notice a huge difference how my kids gets treated depending on the clothes they were. If theyre pink or cute they get a lot of compliments
I try to raise them free from gender specific expectations. (“girls are this, boys are that”) I want them to be just KIDS. Not genders.
Might as well show the brats. Theyre gender neutral. They have no genitals. Nah just kidding. Common misconception. http://t.co/mjj6lVS8
And lets not forget Gunnar. A real Swedish Housecat. Just perfectly inbred and perfectly overweight. http://t.co/q8Cq11kh
An ordinary swedish kitchen. If your a family with kids and lazy parents. http://t.co/lWetU6Zv
An ordinary swedish bathroom floor. http://t.co/xHflKRmM
@_stubbzy mine too! But i try to be eh sophisticated about it. Provoce to raise new thoughts.
@aptronym one of our program actually trends worldwide on twitter. Its crazy! But fun!
i have been told to get over myself a lot of times but im afraid im an impossible cause. @ben_turner
@juliguli a huge down side. Makes me suicidal every year.
i dont use shampoo. Or soap. I “no poo”. @MWhalan
@ThatGuyOscar good attitude!
@aptronym haha same here! Lots of debate programs.
Im a true patriot though. I view sweden through pink coloured glasses. Its the best country ever.
@aptronym haha! Im afraid! Nah, i think people like getting angry.
@thelittlepakeha i am! Not always though.
Ill try to answer all of you but dont get too miffed if i dont. Nothing personal. Lots to do IRL.
Dont like me too much!! I piss people off a lot from time to time too.
@ireland it is! I wish i could HEAR you. Irish is So beautiful.
@Leonardonimo double. Paradise and laid back. But also violent and poor. Read a lot about the cartell and women being killed by the dozen.
@fishd I’m in stockholm. I’m actually half greek. Fathers side.
@mr_spoon havenr had breakfast yet! Will eat eggs. I’m low carb’ing.
I’ll probably tweet a lot about ideals and norms of our society, gender roles, parenting, feminism and maybe a little rocknroll.
I admit im a bit nervous. Ill start a bit ehh lighter and work my way up to my usual self. Any questions?
I also like to come with a little warning. I’m crude, boisterous and vulgar. But totaly lovable. You’ll love me in no time!
> … once in a while but not very often. This is more accurate: http://t.co/MWogXGlK
For those who don’t know me. I look like this… > http://t.co/rsT9vJXB
My name is Natashja AKA Lady Dahmer and i’ll be your host for a week. You will enjoy. Other weeks I’m @ladydahmer